Ditch The Debate

Podcast

Are you a mom entrepreneur ready for more (without the guilt)? Looking to unlock your full potential while tackling the chaos of juggling life, family, and business? Welcome to ‘Ditch The Debate,’ where I’m your guide, Taniel—an expert in Transformation Coaching, Clinical Hypnotherapy, Online Marketing, and Leadership with a passion for helping ambitious moms step into the life they fully deserve.

Join me on a transformative journey where practical strategies intersect with the power of the mind. In short – where the woo-woo rubber hits the road. Together, we’ll dive into empowering discussions, actionable insights, and inspiring stories.

It’s time to ditch the debate & make it happen. So, grab a comfy chair, tune in, and let’s step into your powerful, authentic self together. Are you ready? Let’s go!

Season 4

More solo shows with none other than me! After many, many years experience in all things healing, business and motherhood – I’m sharing my tips, tricks and learnings. My mission is to help as many moms feel less alone than I did during my journey ❤️

Season 1

34 Solo shows with none other than me! After many, many years experience in all things healing, business and motherhood – I’m sharing my tips, tricks and learnings. My mission is to help as many moms feel less alone than I did during my journey ❤️

Season 2

I have brought in some incredible parents to talk all things from epigenetics to money mindset – it’s just gold! ✨ We are all in this together and I am here to share any tips, tricks and hacks that have helped!

Season 3

This is a quick 8 – 10 episode solo series where I’ll be focussing on identity loss, low self-worth and the mental loads of motherhood. My mission is to help as many moms through this messy and confusing time as I possibly can. ✨

Season 4

EP59 Why Willpower Doesn’t Work (& What Actually Does)

EP59 Why Willpower Doesn’t Work (& What Actually Does)

Willpower isn’t the problem – your capacity is.
In this episode, Taniel breaks down why “I just need more discipline” keeps women stuck, especially working moms already running on survival mode. You’ll learn how your nervous system quietly overrides your best intentions, why procrastination is often protection (not laziness), and what actually helps you follow through without burning out. If you’re tired of starting strong and then crashing, this conversation is the reset you’ve needed.

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EP58 The Invisible Load

EP58 The Invisible Load of Working Moms (& Why It’s Crushing Us)

Working motherhood isn’t heavy because of the tasks – it’s heavy because of the mental load behind them. In this episode, we dive into the constant “invisible work” mothers carry: the remembering, anticipating, plannixng, soothing, and managing that runs silently in the background of every day.

You’ll learn why today’s motherhood culture is more demanding than ever, how this pressure affects your nervous system, and simple ways to start putting down the parts of the load that were never meant to be yours alone. If you’ve been feeling overwhelmed, unseen, or permanently “on,” this episode will make you feel understood – and a whole lot less alone.

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EP57 The Sunday Night Anxiety Spiral What It’s Really Telling You

EP57 The Sunday Night Anxiety Spiral

Sunday night anxiety isn’t about dreading Monday – it’s your nervous system bracing for impact.
Your body remembers the chaos, the deadlines, the exhaustion – and starts preparing early.
In this episode, Taniel unpacks what the Sunday night spiral is really trying to tell you,
and how to find calm before the week even begins.

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EP55 When Survival Mode Becomes Your Default

EP55 When Survival Mode Becomes Your Default (& How to Break the Cycle)

You don’t have to crash to realize you’ve been living in survival mode.
Sometimes, it’s the quiet unraveling — the exhaustion, the tears that come out of nowhere, the numbness that replaces joy — that whispers,“You can’t live like this anymore.”
This episode is for the moms who are ready to stop surviving and start feeling safe again.

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Season 3

EP51 The Invisible Load For Working Moms

EP51 The Invisible Load: How Working Moms Manage Mental Stress

Ever feel like you’re carrying an invisible weight? For many working moms, the mental stress of balancing family, work, and daily decision-making can become overwhelming. This unseen burden, known as the ‘invisible load,’ often goes unrecognized but affects our well-being deeply. Discover what it means, how to spot early signs of burnout, and practical strategies to lighten the mental load in your everyday life.

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EP50 Understanding Procrastination - Why Working Moms Delay and How to Break the Cycle

EP50 Understanding Procrastination – Why Working Moms Delay and How to Break the Cycle

As working moms, we’re balancing two intense worlds—managing professional expectations and taking care of everything at home. But procrastination doesn’t just happen because we’re ‘too busy’ or lack motivation. Often, it’s our mental load that pushes us to put things off, even when we know it’ll feel better to get them done. In today’s episode, I unpack why we fall into this cycle and share some real strategies that can help us break free. If you’re a mom balancing both a career and family life, this episode is a must-listen!

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EP49 Daily Habits To Boost Your Self Worth As A Mom

EP49 Daily Habits To Boost Your Self-Worth As A Mom

Do you ever feel like you’ve lost your self-worth since becoming a mom? You’re not alone.

In today’s episode, we’re diving into practical steps you can take to start rebuilding your self-worth as a mom. You give so much to your family, but it’s just as important to take time for *you* and remember your own

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EP47 Why Moms Lose Their Identity & How to Find It Again

EP47 Why Moms Lose Their Identity & How To Find It Again

Have you ever looked in the mirror and wondered, “Who am I now?” As moms, it’s all too easy to feel like the woman you once were has faded under the weight of new responsibilities. In today’s episode, we’re diving deep into why so many moms experience identity loss in motherhood and, more importantly, how you can begin to find yourself again.

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EP46 Finding Yourself Again In Motherhood

EP46 Finding Yourself Again In Motherhood

In this first episode of my 8-part series on identity and self-worth for moms, I’m getting real about the feelings of loss and confusion that can come with motherhood. I’m sharing my personal journey of feeling like I lost myself after having kids and how I’ve been working to rediscover who I am now.

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Season 2

EP445 with Becky Hurley

EP45 Building Dreams In Motherhood with Becky Hurley

Join me for the season finale with Becky Hurley, a farm girl turned multi-million-dollar business mogul. We dive into overcoming childhood trauma, building dreams, and the power of focusing on your own path. Discover how Becky inspires others to turn adversity into a life of personal and financial freedom.

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EP40 Let's Talk Ennui

EP40 Let’s Talk Ennui

In this episode of Ditch The Debate Podcast, I dive into the emotion of ennui, introduced in Inside Out 2. I discuss how ennui, characterized by feelings of listlessness and dissatisfaction, has been a prevalent emotion in my life over the past year.

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Season 1

DTD Ep33 Are You A High Performance Mom

EP33 Are You A High Performance Mom?

Being a high performance mom is a title many strive for, but what does it really mean? While the concept sounds appealing, it’s crucial to delve into both the rewards and the challenges that come with balancing high ambition and the demands of motherhood.

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DTD EP32 Why are Procrastination and Perfectionism twins

EP32 Why are Procrastination and Perfectionism twins?

I want to take a moment to explore the intricate relationship between procrastination and perfectionism. They often fuel each other, forming a toxic cycle that traps us in paralysis. Perfectionism drives us to set impossibly high standards, leading to feelings of inadequacy. Procrastination then becomes a coping mechanism, as we fear not meeting those standards. This cycle exacerbates stress and anxiety, trapping us in delay and self-criticism, hindering our progress and enjoyment of the journey.

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DTD Ep31 Rewiring a Scarcity Mindset for Working Moms

EP31 How To Rewire a Scarcity Mindset for Working Moms

Today, we’re confronting a pervasive challenge: scarcity mindset. As working moms, we often feel the weight of never having enough time, resources, or opportunities. But here’s the thing – scarcity is a mindset, not a reality. Let’s unpack its effects and uncover strategies for rewriting our stories.

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DTD Ep30 Tips for Reinventing Yourself In Motherhood

EP30 Practical Tips for Reinventing Yourself In Motherhood

Reinventing yourself isn’t easy, but it’s necessary for aligning priorities with lifestyle and preserving values. Dive into the discomfort, set bold goals, identify strengths, overcome fears, and take deliberate action. It’s time to embrace the journey of transformation and thrive in motherhood.

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